Sunday 21 July 2024

Learning some enjoyable sports type of talents

 See the long piece of texts in my new Christmas gnome skills blog, kind of magazine like version of my old blog's beginning. See https://christmasskills.blogspot.com/2024/07/nice-motion.html 

Use your browser's computer like view, if you want to read the blog. 


"A53.   22. of May 2019

Gonmes can be sporty too. Here is maybe something in between having fun and enjoying life and learning sports talents:
""About recovering from more strenous motion than usually:
The body warm and soft, kind of ball like, in ways that feel good as if comfortably in a sofa.
For returning energy reserves healthy food like on saturdays.
One ought to listen to muscles and limbs and the positions of the body: how the exercise makes them stronger and the good posture that they seek how it brings to the different parts of the body good space to live in and support from the neighbouring parts, health and strenght for the future. One ought to reserve time and eace for the body and mind for this like one listens to the body temperature after sauna, in other words there is a moment for this and otherwise one can be peacefully listening to the atmosphere of the moment, for a monet with a smaller sphere of attention for one to be with a better endurancy and more rested in the future, but just only according to what feels good and right, what the body and one's feelings long for.
If one is restless because of having exercised too much, it is good to move a little bit when one feels so whether it is two seconds or a few minutes, and then rest again when one feels so."
"Recovery and getting wiser
Recovering from more strenous motion than usually and after motion generally makes one feel good and is good for the body and mind.
Recovering after motion can make one wise similarly as waking up in the morning gradually (see point 6. in this blog in the text about healthy ways of living), if the movements are free in the whole body most of the time, like the body and mind each moment feel to be good for them, and not all the time curling or all the time as if one were a piece of bread.
Of the type of motion one ought to think that I got this type of motion now but I intend to keep my possibilities of moving wide, also now as I recover. One oguht not aim at being stiuck to that type of moving that one usually meets.
One needs to let the bpdy find a good posture for each of it's parts, for it's environment too anf for all body parts good possibilities of movement to different directu´ions, even though now largely as intentions, and a good posture for each part, and let the posture be alive and change from moment to moment and bring a good honest sporty way of living, a bouncing step and lots of freed energy and a fresh mind."
One can learn sports talents this way:
"Do not make plans about how to move but decide each second and each fraction of a second anew what right now feels like the best idea about where to move, how to move, in which style, in which attitude, in which mood, with how much eager interest and quickness resulting from that or relaxed awareness or emotionally motivated force,... So you change all the time, your plans change and you learn to pick each fraction of a second just the things that you like best right then to be your goalsetting right then in practice in your movements. So you feel happy and fulfilled. Be wary of boredom and habits.""
From my text about the seasons http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2014/11/living-with-seasons.html
About the third advice: you are as a doing person going certain way and you instinctually know that a certain way of moving would at that moment be best for you, your body and mood and emotional motivation are tuned to that direction, so you take a step or half a step or a few steps emotionally in that mood, like is the wish of the moment, not a paln, not s though and certainly not pretending something else than your emotionas, mood and body's posture and body's sensations tell you at that moment. Like following temptations, being playful as you move.

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Here is a later remark from the chapter 9. of the same book: 

" I 39.   10th of May 2021   I haven't had a sports hobby for a long time and the last few days I have been ill, but I think thst for one to enjoy sports a lot one ought to have a similar attitude to moving as to the challenges westher brings, and have a sense of concretical achievements of the hardcreality and have senses open as one moves  eye watchibgvtrees  grasses etc and from that comes a large patt of the concreticsl side, and have along a widercwisdom of lufe like the beauty of music as one sibgs or listens to a good singer. 


From the thick hardcover book "SKILLS OF CHRISTMAS GNOMES" available at the Amazon internet bookshops, for example www.amazon.com 

Of walking in beauty

 Please see my free ebook at https://miraclelikenature.blogspot.com/2024/07/book-of-walking-in-beauty.html 

The book's first text:

"Dwenda" beauty of a certain climate's nature, ways of living, etc 

 Travel to your dream destinations with Dwenda travels,Dwenda travels is a way of looking so that one gets a feeling of utter beauty of nature and learns great new talents etc,

8th of July 2024   Of the name Dwenda, I am good at theoretical thinking, so I suggested a name connected with wise ways of thinking, D, which appear to fit together with the nature, in questions of northmost America the trees there, and a kind of wider fascinating spgere of lufe and of undwrstanding and skills with a tale like charm of the northern forests, snow, nature and the seasons there, like what is the charm of some books there and my view of how to learn new skills, talents and a way of lufe suited to an area that one would like to live in and whose seasons, weathers, type of nature imoressions and their atmospgwre sensstions, etc one is fascinated by. And my imoression about traditional ways of life in the quite north, and of the ways of living of wildlife in the north. But these wete jyst imordssions of a certain style, certain ways of choosing what is comfortable for people, animsls  groups, etc motivated in a certain way, what is a fruotful groubd to build upon together with civiluced wisdom and especially civiluced valyes. And the ibflyencies from the arctic Santa Claus Kand in the North-West Russia at Novaja Zemlja made it possible to choose jyst such that it would be like a nice present or nice presents for the ibdkviduals but with good wuse effects in the world and posdible in practice, for e ample of a right size class in each thing. Or that was the aim. 


9th of July 2024   If the name of a wide area Dwenda, helps learning fascinating clinate's culture which one likes and values, and learn talents, wisdom and skills from the nature, etc, and does so all over the world, is it then in a sense a name suited to the whole planet Earth, so would the planet Earth have in some sense naturally the name Dwenda, since thinking a liked fascinating area there havibg that name (Dwenda) or being a part of a wider area with that name (Dwenda) would be a good way to live there, to learn to the place's habits, skills, ways of living, etc. So in a sense such a planet would be called Dwenda, even if it isn't officially called tgat. " 
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FROM THE BOOK "OF WALKING IN BEAUTY" 

As if of a naturally healthy family

 See https://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2024/07/how-to-stay-healthy-and-recover-when.html 


" How to stay healthy and get healed when needed 

 "  This is a much wished for thing to learn from the northern climates, but this attempt that seems successful, is surprisingly different in ways of communicating and values and skills referred to, than what I and I guess many other northerners too, would have expected, see https://parantamisesta7.blogspot.com/2024/07/waking-to-life.html and at a link from there. " 


Waking to life 

 " ...

If one thinks of what those who tend to be ill and mostly just sleep and stay st home, if they needed some advice of how to recover and live comfortably at home. My strong opinion has always been that as healthy and capable I can make much better advices. But now via experience I have noticed that if I would for example make a melody of wakkng up, being revived to life, refreshed, vitalused, it would include some element from active life remembered, so maybe it woukd disturb those ill who seek to be unfairly dominant socially and in the society even if they are foreigners valuing some not do healthy culture, and so maybe such lufe would grt destroyed. Which maybe happened already beforehand. So writing of Christmas gnlme like lufe, I would have guessed that also for those who are so ill that they mostly stay kn bed, it would have been good influence if I had a nice well running way to leisirely make home cjores like feels good and needed and keeps home and lufe nice, full of activities when one feels so and with a good quality rationality. But such too has seemed too much for some who want to compete with snything healthy. So maybe there are reasons for not wanting such either, even though it would be good for life. Maybe somewhst fat elderly nurses feel it uncomfortable to be active with the liveliness typical to young people, so I guess they should fknd in their own ways and amounts the needed natural waking to life and to natural pleasant kind of straightforward action, to which tgere coukd suit the advice about honey like atmosphere at https://learntalents3.blogspot.com/2024/06/tranquil-peace-and-beauty-serene.html .

From https://learntalents3.blogspot.com/2024/07/how-do-we-form-society.html 



Tranquil peace and beauty, serene fracturelessness with healthy wisdom of life 

 Try to follw these two advices fully: 

1. An ok angel 

"  ( The Finnish word for an angel is "enkeli", in which "en" means "No, I am not...", and "keli" means weather to travel in, and those both have to be taken into account: freedom to folliw one's likibgs in miral ways, and takkng the situations into account, the situations of all, and folliwing civiluced valyes and healthy wisdom of life. )

27th of April 2024    Learned from changing weathers demanding individual judgement to stay alive, like the melting of the ice cover of a lake in the spring time. 

16th of April 2024   First, follow civiliced values with good quality. Then have some independency, the right to refuse, so as to have some personal fracturelessness and healthy kibd of wisdom in lufe choices. Pay attention to weather like situatiobs: does the thing seem good, wished for in tge world, and for you right now, and for others, kibd of taking the ibfo of feelibgs into accoubt well, since often drawbacks are difficult to put to words, since those are often in another perspective or side or between perspectives, but kind of felt atmospheric fracturelessness in how one is in a landscape may help one notice such and take them wusely into account. "

2. Beneficial for life 



 " 

My own home as an adult has sometimes had a honey like atmosphere. I value animals and nature, admire bees, and I tend to think that it is good to leave things at home in a way that is good for life, but sincere enough so as to know where one needs to learn better ways of living. I value wisdom of life a lot and consider good ways of doing important. I think strongly that wishing well in the world and being fair in one's life are important values to follow in practice, always in everything. 

ASorcerer.BlogSpot.com 

https://miraclelikenature.blogspot.com/2024/04/magnifient-views.html 

LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com 

Www.EasyHealing.info 

WakingFromDeath.BlogSpot.com 

My books www.amazon.com/author/khtervola 

From my blog LearnTalents2.BlogSpot.com 



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Saturday 6 July 2024

Trying to solve environmental questions

 See my blog kokonaiskuvat2.blogspot.com even though it earlier was almost only in Finnish.

Machine translations seem to vary a lot, but here is one attempt at getting translations of the booklets made from the beginning of the first part of this blog of mine, see https://miraclelikenature.blogspot.com/2024/01/kirjat-ratkaisuja-ja.html .

Cooking tips (on a very general level)

 From my blog LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com which also otherwise is very good for softening life with the help of advices on a very general level. 


 " "Better tasting from the same food

When you cook food or estimate the amounts of it's substances, and if you have earlier cooked the same or something quite like it, then you have an emotionally felt estimate of when it is fried or with which amounts of substances, it would have been at it's best or just as certain type at it's best. And when you take  to be your guidelines those emotionally felt estimates about time lenghts, cookedness, amounts of food substancies, about which elements fit well together, etc, then with the same amount of labour, time, money and foods you get better food.

Likeise if you have skills in other skills, ten rythming your actions according to emotionally felt estimates you can reac your best."


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20.8.2018   I add here another cooking tip that is good for skills at large:

"264. If one does something in rigid ways as if work all the time, one's understanding does not develop into as good as via more complex rich ways of doing even the same work, much less than life skills at large would give. That is why it would be good to instead of a very detailedly followed single perspective, give room for a taste of life, for one to see where one is going and for skills to develop. So for example when moving food while cooking it one would not mix it to completely even but instead leave it more uneven, so as to have in sight some of how one worked, so that one can then notice that if I would have for example cooked thicker, would the taste and feel have been better, so that there is a richness of options in sight and one can see where in it would be good, so that one learns all the time new things, even if otherwise one would not have learned anything else otherwise than remembering past times and comparing to them in one's memory, but at those time maybe one needed different amount of different kind of food because od´f different things done, weather etc."
http://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2018/01/healthy-ways-of-living-and-doing.html 


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Something about vegetarian foods etc, at https://orientalphilosphy.blogspot.com/2022/11/healthy-vegetarian-food.html 

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" A64.   Of eating a good basic advice that makes one feel well and stay healthy, without any problems related to foods, is to eat fresh good quality food according to the food circle which says that you should at every meal eat at least something of each of the five groups of types of food, but how much of each food, that must be determined by how you feel that you would feel well for the next few hours and be healthy in the long run too: 1. fruits, vegetable & berries, 2. meat, chicken, fish, soya and some types of nuts, 3. wheat products, like musli, bread, (propably?? also pasta, potatoes and rise), 4. milk products, and 5. butter, oils and the like. "
From my Christmas gnome skills text   LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com/2018/09 .

Learning a singing experience of life

 See https://miraclelikenature.blogspot.com/2024/01/book-singing-experience-of-life-and.html 


About finding a dream job

 See https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/10/about-earning-money.html 

See also ToDreamJob.BlogSpot.com 

"About earning money 

 There is a song called "Vanha holvikirkko" i.e. "Old catedral with a rounded roof", which has a beautiful melody of someone walking past the catedral on a sunny summer evening maybe 5 p.m. and it is quiet but not silent and the oasser-by hears someone playing the church organs and it is just a beautiful summer like sound like people sometimes hear. 



My father's father died when I was eight years old 1979 (which is 44 years ago), but he was said to have been a bank's boss in Mikkeli, with the name Johannes Ekholm, but then his bank went bankrupt because of some business of building an apartment house that had problems and the business partner needed more and more money and turned out to be a traitor and run away with the money, and if I remember right, then it turned out that people had been stealing money from the bank and that the bank workers had pretended that all was all right but the bank was only just surviving, and so with the extra expenses the bank collapsed. My geandfather had to change his name from Ekholm, which means "oak island" or "oak stupid" to Hari, which was his idea of who do often well in lufe compared to the rigid wood like stuck ways, and so thought also his children: a daugter and four sons. And so they moved to Helsinki. 

But now thinking of this melody made me think of how people go to talk to some elder generation bank boss and search for a career and a way to get paid, since I feel that the people in my environment who got a career they liked and got an ok wage, approached the subject somewhat as if my grandfather like bank boss or his wife who was an apple farmer and a mother of a big family, had adviced them like the view of the melody.

"Already a summer evening has come,

Someone is playing church's organs, and the village life is sleepy.

As the player there is the son of the catedral's cantor 

And to a summery evening, the sound of fuuga wanders beautifully

He is dreaming of becoming a cantor, even though he plays just for himself.

Thinking: "if in tge future he could play also to others this way

It is just a dream but makes one enthusiastic."

(Someone else thinking:) "When some time in the future the church organs sing, the sound can tell what he wished".

He is still young, but he already looks forward to the time when people from all around come to hear him playing. 

"If some time in the future, he could play also to others

When once church bells sing, the sounds can tell what he dreamed of."


As far as I understand, dream jobs go that way when there is the civiliced picture of the world, civiliced values and a tendency of all to count on the healthy choices in the society. 

17th of October 2023   So it is practice someone walking by hearing beautiful music and dreaming for a while about learning to play such oneself and of getting such a profession, but turning then toward one's own dreams of what would be nice to do as a job for oneself, what kibds of things it could have. Such dreams need to be of something to do, for example fine-tunedly like skilled thinking or skilled handiwork, and good-willingly sensitively and with wisdom of life like a serving work professional like selling or caring for people's needs as a waitress or whatever. The basic idea is that one can live freely if one follows with good quality the civiliced picture of the world and civiliced values. In practice that means that one must have some job, while the wisdom of the society advices one to choose a job that one likes, and to follow wisdom of lufe, for example changing to a job that one likes and distancing oneself from the people who are not of one's own kind. So a job is something that one wants to take care of, with good quality and fairly toward all and well for the society and the world. And the civiluced picture of the world, civiluced values and wisdom of life are what to followin the world at large, instead of oneself dominating, so all get room, do not disturb others and can live freely according to the rule "Live and let others live!"




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There is a huge difference between one dreaming of becoming a great painter but never taking such as a profession, and one who went to courses in painting and tried to be a full time painter. The one dreaming whose relationship to arts as professions is distant, comes up with great insights in how fine one's paintings could be, one sees every now and then somethkng of such kind and is motivated in developing in wisdom of lufe and lufe skills at large, while the one who is a professional painter jyst gets bored and one's painting get clumsy and without content, the original motivation has been lost. 

I have tried to figure out solutions to world's problems, for example to environmental problems. The main feature of them is that one supposes that it is enough if one comes up with good ideas to some parts of the problems, since the full solutions will propably be found by thr joint effort of many. So just about any good idea is good enough for that, and so one can find very many quite useful pieces. 

But if one would go to an ordinary job sounding of the same caliber, it woukd demand thst one would be able to solve with professional quality all the things that come across in that job, and lne would need to be able to carry that job from the point of view of wisdom of lufe and the workings of the society and of the wide world in what comes to those subjects and the people one meets in one's job. So the job would demand at least 10 000 tines more skills in the subject and a dedicatiln to jyst that kind of life. 

So as young people dream of many kibds of areas of life, and so they or quite many of them get some kind of skills reserve in them, wisdom of lufe from the point of view of such jobs and insights of what they coukd so achieve. Yet that is too luttle for such a job, maybe even for a hobby, but if one across time collects such pieces of skills, talents, an understanding of the world and wisdom of lufe, then one maybe can with them back up one's possibilities for work that is worth doing.

 Since jusg guessing that memorised education from books is enough and that it would be ok for all kinds tasks, just does not seem to produce quality worth the wage. 


18th of October 2023   

https://yle.fi/a/74-20055828

The news say: The police found an exhausted owl on the street and put it to jail. 



Kaisa Hannele Tervola's books www.amazon.com/author/khtervola , also at other countries' Amazon internet bookshops: search "tervola".

The Finnish Christmas radio www.jouluradio.fi starts in the beginning of November at least this year 2023. 

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FROM: "WONDERFUL, MIRACLE LIKE BEINGS", also available as an ebook at the internet bookshop www.amazon.com 


Nice miracle healing advices

 Healing by pieces of healthy ways of living and wisdom of lufe according to positive feelings, see www.EasyHealing.info which ought to lead to my blog CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com 

"INDEX WITH CURE SUGGESTIONS after the word "and"



Cure attempts to illnesses etc made by comparing with fully healthy ways of living, no medicine, no treatments, ought to cure by reading, understanding and using that point of view & it's recommendations, ought to ease in 5min or no effect.
(It is said thatthe name Tervola (="Healthy/Fit"/"Health/Fitness sings"/"Place/Family/Person with healthy, fully fit ways of living as high value") teaches those with that name to be skilled healers. That is why I have written these guesses /this insight up, just in case it might help many.)

The internet address of this index is:   http://curingguesses.blogspot.com/2018/12/index-with-cure-suggestions-after-word.html . The Finnish language original is at http://parantamisesta.blogspot.com .

Here are some 600 headers with cure suggestions in them after the word "and". The texts are nu,bered but I have translated only some 50 texts to English (see the rest of this blog for them). The originals are in Finnish language.
This index is not yet ready but has already 500 headers in it.
(The translations are meant for an international audience. The language seeks to be simple. The names of illnesses are either with everyday words or found from an internet dictionary.)

Please read the cure suggestions too when you bladdre the index, especially of similar illnesses, since so you gain a view of what kinds of cures these are and maybe also how to figure out something on the same lines yourself.
(One can learn similar view of what is a good way to live and what not, from having some form of motion as a hobby. In moving one each moment makes observations of how one feels and what one's understanding says about what is a good way to move and what not. Similarly one can learn from living with varying weathers, from making adjustments to one's way of living to suit the moment and to bring good feeling, endurancy and health in the long run.)



A
A328. Abort   14.4.2016
39. Helping a person after an accident  6.5.2015
accident   A218. A hit in the head and an understanding that one has been doing something unusual  26.12.2015
A219. About the reasons for accidents   26.12.2015
accidents   A226. Wounds just caused and try now the miracle cure attempts   31.12.2015
accident   A324. Emergency help of one who fell to cold water from ice cover ??   6.4.2016
4. Aches and movement intentions  2.2.2012
31. Nerve ache in the nose area and skin & body under the skin warm  22.2.2015
33. Cold aches and keeping the whole body warm  27.2.2015
172. Muscle aches & kramps(?) and sportiness & warmth   23.11.2015
173. Muscle aches after sprts and payinga s much attention to moving  23.11.2015
A261. MStomach aches and correcting life choises tyo be according to feelings   24.1.2016
aches   A334. "Lihasleini" and experiencing senses strongly   21.5.2016
B448. Pains and aches and horse knit model   13.2.2017
97. A wish for acupuncture and taking more distance to people that one identifies with    15.8.2015
B408. Enlargened Adam's apple (Suurentunut aataminomena) and yto not to interprete life to technical engineering kidn of language   6.11.2016
A298. Addiction and meeting the same needs in ways with healthy spirit   9.2.2016
B462. Computer addiction and other nice things to do but similar main current of life   27.2.2017  
long age   A318. Living long   31.3.2016
B472. Schools' indoor air problems and teachers who were in their age at least as good inschool studies as their pupils are  15,3,2017
B416. Albinism and to value nature higher, finer than books   29.11.2016
79. Allergies and seeing their causes as important parts of the healthy world  6.7.2015
A321. Spring time allergy of trees' seed dust in the air   4.4.2016
A359. Altzheimer disease and lifting the level of profoundity to artistic & spiritual  7.8.2016
10. Ankle hurt by being twisted and keeping it in the center position  23.11.2012
87. Astma (breathing difficulty) and the lush greenery of nature  16.7.2015
144. Astronauts and nature & women's points of view  2.11.2015
A317. Poor atmosphere in medicine   30.3.2016
B449. Disturbancies in one's skill of attention and a healthier spirit in way of trying   16.2.2017
72. Autism and socially different social relationships and compeltely different job options than parents  27.6.2015

..."


"Miracle healing summarized 

 " Wish well for the world at large so that your effect in the world is positive and beautiful. Pay attention to the landscape around, especially trees and the weathers of the season, how they make more alive and spiritually sensitive in return. With the help of this effect on your body and mind, turn to religion seeking for miracle like healing. Give to your body and mind as an advice these effects and that each part of the body should be completely healthy, aim at healing to fully healthy. Each part of the body should heal itself and the neighbouribg areas, the wholebody too back to full health. "


"   One's ability to get miracle healed  gets better if one in connection with the above miracle healing advice dedicates one's life responsibly and fairly for the good of the world. " 

This latter advice is where one can get extra strong effect, partly relying in the thought of the world being of spirit, but also otherwise aiming for the good of the world, without ever erring badly, can bring a much creater force toward recovery than just trying on one's own. 



(" 30th of May 2024   The answer to the question of why lost limbs etc do not recover, is msybe that the phace of life isn't such then. Humans need a healthy body that stays healthy, without growing unnecessarily or wrong. But as a baby in their mother's stomach they grow a healthy normal human body, and it seems that it does not require much experience of life, but intentions should be toward the right direction and the goal to be a healthy normal human body. An impression from some mental or spiritual side is tgat if some adult has list for example half a limb, it may be possible for some to grow a new one, but it requires that ghey really wish to live with such a new linb for years and tens of years, fully healthy, are really convinced of such, such is their major lufe chouces. And in such occasions, for example having watched on some mental side someobe grow a new limb, it may be possible to grow also other mussing body parts. ")


" But usually growing other missing body parts goes via spirituality, just wishibg things going well and living according to that wiser healibg picture of the world. So one cannot be social with peopke who wish that weapons would have strobg effects in the sense of no healing possible, or in the sense of suppirting lufe chouces which tebd to cause death. So one should somehow stick to spiritual healing life choices, and so on such roads healing would be possible, one would just transform to healthy vua such lufe chouces. "   


The quotations are from  www.EasyHealing.info which ought to lead to the blog CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com . "

Also available as parts of the books "HEALING", and "Healing 4 " at www.amazon.com/author/khtervola .


Traditional Finnish harmony

 See https://asorcerer.blogspot.com/2024/04/traditional-finnish-harmony-learned.html 


"Traditional Finnish harmony learned from the changing weathers  "  ( The Finnish word for an angel is "enkeli", in which "en" means "No, I am not...", and "keli" means weather to travel in, and those both have to be taken into account: freedom to folliw one's likibgs in miral ways, and takkng the situations into account, the situations of all, and folliwing civiluced valyes and healthy wisdom of life. )

27th of April 2024    Learned from changing weathers demanding individual judgement to stay alive, like the melting of the ice cover of a lake in the spring time. 

16th of April 2024   First, follow civiliced values with good quality. Then have some independency, the right to refuse, so as to have some personal fracturelessness and healthy kibd of wisdom in lufe choices. Pay attention to weather like situatiobs: does the thing seem good, wished for in tge world, and for you right now, and for others, kibd of taking the ibfo of feelibgs into accoubt well, since often drawbacks are difficult to put to words, since those are often in another perspective or side or between perspectives, but kind of felt atmospheric fracturelessness in how one is in a landscape may help one notice such and take them wusely into account. 

In some loose group all following fully the above advices, would maybe bring traditional Finnish type of harmony. 

(I am not so sure if the singer is good influence, since hebrings to my mind a robot with a hard-cover insect.) Jukka Poika - Silkkii 

As if it were about the landscape around and of living in such a beauty of nature and of civiluced wisdom.  

" You are silk,

 in my lap. 

And like quite warm water on quite small waves,

We were carved from the same kind of wood, from head to toe. 

You are silk, 

in my lap.

And like quite warm water, which splashes.

Of tge same current are the sky and the earth,

when they meet.

When thunder storm flames. 

It is as if we had known earlier,

When I tell what makes me aflame. 

What makes me stay moving enjoyably as if dancingly here. 

And I could not wish for any better. 

There is our favourite dj playing,

and he playes us only nice songs. 

And I would not leave from here,

if I did not need to help you home. 

..."

"... ( The different kinds of daylight times, of the summer's light night, vary slowly glidingly,) as if high tide and low tide, bringing lots of varied new sensations, ... until slowly comes the morning. ..."



"..."

And https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2024/04/find-land-of-christmas.html 

( Miracle healing advices www.EasyHealing.info i.e. CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com )

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From LearnTalents2.BlogSpot.com 


Such a harmony depends on one liking and admiring the climate, type of nature and the culture of the country with it's ways of living and skill levels. So you ought to move to from where you try to learn such things, i.e. some to a nice kind of place in Central Europe, some to tropical countries they like, etc. 

And then just follow the advice, leaving fracturelessness also to others, and trusting feelings and sensations etc too, never forgetting to follow wisdom. 

From the book 2. in the series "A SORCERER" at the internet bookshop www.amazon.com and it's side branches in other countries 


Work, feelings and money

 Please start from the earluest blog posts, see https://workandfeelings.blogspot.com 

See also my old blog WorkandFreeTime.BlogSpot.com 


As a book "WORK AND FEELINGS" by Kaisa Hannele Tervola, available at www.amazon.com/author/khtervola 


Tears of relief when our happiness begun

The song lyrics & my advices at https://learntalents3.blogspot.com/2024/07/a-christmas-decoration-from-straw.html 

" A Christmas decoration from straw 

 Obs. The advice about "reducing big burdens" is in this blog post, at the entry 3rd of July 2024, after the first snowflake in it.

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 I tried to figure out why my way of painting got stuck to like just as if colouring drawing a shape, and next to it another in another colour, and so on. It was uninteresting and so my painting hobby largely ended, ceased. There was a paper pad with a cover of such a style. I remember wondering at it, but I do not remember if I bought such. Those were basic water colour painting pads, quite cheap. But maybe someone would say that it was a question of some other products that I had bought. It might have been the Christmas decorations of straw. I had two of them, one light straw colour, I do not remember if that too was from Savonlinna. But in addition I had a more clumsy lookibg one which had been dyed fully red, not so bright red but some kind of Christmas red it was I thought. I do not remember if I bought them both at the same time from Tiimari in Savonlinna, but the one selling them said something of them, and I did not understand, but I said that I want Christmaas decorations and have two companions dogs of equal suzes and their voloyrs seem to fit with these, and such choices are often wanted. I did say that I like red too. If I remember right, both had beards of seeds but was it in shop or just when having come home from shop or in the Christmas somehow on the first moment, it was as if from somewhere came a moyse or rat and in a very short time ate the beard of the red one, and dusapoeared abd I haven't seen mice or rats after that indoors, except once my whote spitz seemed to eat something which coukd have been a mouse with very unhealthy ways of living, kibd of klunk style. 



So was there some task connected with these Christmas decorations, which in Finnush are called "olkipukki" while Santa Claus is called "joulupukki". Us the idea that I shoukd help to somehow teach, create so new Santa Clauses via having these in my eyes teaditional handicraft like and dyed midern shop version like decoration "Christmas goats"? But I haven't noticed that I would have learned anything, except that these are for the actual Christmas celebration only, so there may be some religioysness in their style and intended usage. And I have learned  like I knew beforehand, that to me the seeds in their beard are important, make them more charming and remind of old times. And I have learned that red shop producrs may be somehow a good choice for me via their coloyr dymbolucs, even if the product otherwise would not be so fine. 
I remember thinkibg that a straw goat must be made from moist straws, for the straws to not to break. And that one must have a liking for such a job and a fascination about such a task and about the natural materials. And one ought not make so many of them at a time. Instead make one and see how it turns out lookibg like, abd make another and it too has it's own typical personal kibd of charming style, and both Christmas like in their own way too. And so on. 
So I do not know, how I could create Santa Claus creating advices, but there my many texts about skills for a Christmas gnome lije life, see LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com/2018/09 .

From Savonlinna I bought was it Christmas 2020 a round red Christmas carpet, which seemed as if fittting to reaching for higher skills, but maybe somehow harmful, kind of cut away by other if such was kept after Christmas. I have most of my life been cut away many liked things that way away from my lufe, but I do not know why. Sometimes I feel thst some ckassify them as extra lufe possibilitues which they want to rob away from my type of people, even though mostly school saw such areas of lufe as ordinary hobbies etc. 

The picture was taken here in Espoo two days before my poodle was killed. 

( From news 3rd of July 2024   of thousands of Chickens having died because of erraneous claim by laboratorio analyzis, though it says almost 2/3 spared. Coukd it be the colour connecting with a charming character and wishing well, so some wanted to sreal the orange reddish brown eco chickens from a farm with 100 years of experience with chickenshttps://yle.fi/a/74-20097730 )



There was also a picture of the roadsign, like to a Santa Claus Land, I thought. 



( Detailed visual eyesight important all the time is typical for cold climates. If one wants less detailed pictures, one ought to search for pictures from warmer countries. For example many garden flowers and traditional miljos with gardens seem to be planned to be watched with a mire dim eyesight, kind of as if in a flu or on a hot summer day evening, with social content, miljo etc being important. Such would be found from Central-European countries and South-European countries too. I guess in warm countries detailed eyesight is used like knowledge from one's picture of the world, or useful hint when driving, and is not so life-like in it's style, more like stone view. https://www.travelawaits.com/2743696/best-cities-in-europe-to-see-spring-flowers/ 

If it in a hot climate is too hot to look at them, can it be that people there are too fat because they do not know how the Michelin man like amount of fatness that makes it easier to bear difficultues, depends on climate or season of the year. There ought to be some quite thin layer of fat which is enough for bearing extra difficultues which do not last more than day or two before tge next quite heavy meal, plus in addition a thin soft cushion like padding for making daily relations lighter if aiming at positive for feelings. )


"Tears of our happiness

I still have somewhere the rose which reminds me of happiness,
Those many fears have been forgotten,
I was like a tiny piece of wood floating in the bubbles of the sea so defenceless
Magic took us to it's power
Now to a tale like land I will show the road to you.
Do you still remember the road? 
I would take you there again
Do you remember those tears of the wonder of our new happiness?
Toward my soul I was at that time searching for. 
Our dreams did not lose their wings,
Still belueving in my ideals I found love.
I feel I ought to travel this road in life all the way
Oh, I am regeretting: I will not get the easiest road! 

Do you still remember those tears of when our happiness begun? 
Through the years, the memory always along. 
Those never fully dried: 
Thank you, my friend. 

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Tears of happiness are tears of relief when life changed to much better like one has long wished for. The problem with improvements in life is that often one gets used to them and bored and so one isn't so happy anymore. The key to lasting happiness is building life upon healthy natural ages olf life, which is of the type suited to the individual, like climate likings for example. Then too one would need the society support such good life, and one woukd need a social environment valuing similar wisdom of life. And as time passes and one oneself changes and the world changes and the lives of others go onwards too, there should be a possibility to retune each relation and thing in life to right charming well working distance and such type too, to get new nice things to life and to distance oneself from burdens, without giving up the rule "Live and let others live!", see F60. at LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com/2020/12     )

If one wonders, what is the wish of Santa Clauses, I guess it is continuing cultural traditions in wise ways fitted into the modern world, wishing well in the world. 

The red Christmas carpet seemed made by some religious person. The decoration leaves on white or light blue arlund the edge seem to refer to not-so-skilled style theory perspective mentionibg green leaves in nature and leaves as atmospheric beautiful decorations, but in style of ukuleles, so referring to learning paradise types. And tgat in the context of Christmas bringing some presents abd a relugioys person being able to help in arranging such. And so the red round caroet next to my poidle made tge poodle's natural style appesr complex and fine, and lijewise tge meaningfulness in healthy kibd of daily life seen meaningful from the poibt if view of schooked picture of the world and as more complex than theory, and so these giving rise to tge ordinary solution finding possibilitues of schooled kibd of objective thinking. And so these ought to have helped me and my poidle in solving world's problems. Starting from my own skill level as a thinker, and helped by my poidle in some ways but I do not know how, but at least it was nice company and I liked walks and the coat care, etc, valued it as my friend. 

If one thinks of how to create new Santa Clauses, I would think that the new Santa Clauses need to be wise in healthy natural ages old ways, and referring to my previoys blog post 

"For example a nose like landform near a build walkibg road straight to the sea would be better than bridge but not good enough, not so strongly experienced, not bringing so much personally meanibgful wisdom of lufe and lufe experiences. Like swimming on a natural shore maybe would be if you lije just that clinate, culture and nature, are impressed by their wisdom of life. For example a rocky shore walkroad there plys a swimming sand shore near by. "

 I would say that the person shoukd like the place he/she lives in, find it a right kind of wise tune in one's heart, so tge nature there would make lne wiser. Likewise the place ought to be such that it is natural, feels natural to gelp the basic needs of others of many many others endlessly, basic skill level, hwaling, lufe skills, lufe pissibilities, gettibg alobg with othwrs and wisjing well in the world, having a wuse enough cultursl environment, being fair and honest enough, jeeping up wuse teaditilns, gwalthy wats of living, etc. In Lappland the cokd seems to make the dituation such that one thinks tgat basic needs ought to ve met or then due away. But caring such for many is an enermoys task, so the environment there ought to be such that it lifts skill level, gers lufe goibgceasier and more fracturelee way. In Lappkand if there are trees, the landscaoe outsude the window ought to such: beautiful if jyst left undisturbed, and in a garden or yard walkways cleaned from too much snow but tree branches etc and preferably the whole landscape otherwuse left untouched, and so sniw makes it beautiful. There also is healthy kibd of challenge in the weathers, making  sports hobbies wushed fir, so good will would help a lot. 

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But the ways of living depend on the place. Watching some Russian film of nature at northern mountain region, made me think that maybe I am disturbed by the style of someone walking there as if owning the place, when in fact the nature is so scarce there, that if one would think of living there, there would not be enough many plants, or tree species, etc, and the nature too easily wounded. So I would think that one ought jyst walk thete admiring the beauty, the atmospheres of the sights, and then jyst walk home, to somewhere where there is a paved road or walkwsy with a rail mountainside, so that many feet or passing by many times there does not disturb the nature at all. But often those liking to care for such nuild environment do not like to observe thibgs so well, not so detailedly, and do not safeguard nature, do not feel like going for a walk in harmony with the nature, etc. 

3rd of July 2024   In the night I woke up as if someone had said "37 million, there will be so many new Santa Clauses this way", and even some Santa Claus in the Lappland seemed to react that that is too many, it was not planned to begin with, unless those are the ones visiting familues' homes at Christmas, instead of having a Santa Claus Land of their own. Maybe they could unite their forces if they suit to live in the same town or smaller place to live in, coukd have different versions of local lufe lije it is good to have different kibds of shops and houses suited to different ways of living the local life, like in the book https://miraclelikenature.blogspot.com/2024/04/magnifient-views.html , but maybe all towns, climates, etc are not so suited to be Santa Claus Lands, maybe there are other kibds of things one can do there dedicatedly and arrange such for a larger area too, like nice ways of doibg handicrafts for example. 

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About reducing big burdens like healing the ill children visitors in Santa Claus Lands etc, there are several good ideas. One is to teach all skills and knowledge when they are heslthy and such tgat it helps them to stsy healthy, get healed quickly, and be able to take care thst life goes well in the society and in the world. The usual such wisdom are healthy natural ways of living, civiliced wisdom and wishing things fairly well for all in the world. One should also notice who cultivates what areas, with which skills, values, goals, quality, social chouces (one shoukd aim at being fair, also toward not-so-liked peopke associated with or mentiobed or compared with), areas of comfortability, etc, and remember that one shoukd not affect things which one does not cultivate well for the world, like choices of values to follow when affecting the world for examole. 
Then there are factors which make learnkng easier, like walking roads' edge while admiring the looks of trees and undergrowth plants by the road's side, and forming so a gradually increasing landscape like picture of them one by one, like school learning goes through new things. Of these one can also learn something about healthy natural ways of living. Music, meditation, liked sports, hobbies, etc teach wisdom of life and may increase capacity abd make social life at least partly more positive. 
My healing advices about healing by pieces of healthy natural ways of living and wisdom of lufe according to positive feelings, work just by reading and understanding with common sense, mostly one needs to read about two rows or a few entries each about two rows from the index or less than a page of quite nice text, but first one must try to find the right texts and get a general idea of this way of healing, see www.EasyHealing.info which ought to lead to my blog  CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com . The idea is that the ill oerson oneself or some friendly oerson helping coukd read the texts, and so get healed in (tens of) seconds or in a few minutes, kind of reminding oneself of the forgotten pieces of healthy ways of living, including the importance of following feelings in ways positive for life, in a wise enough way. These are just blogs, books etc of mine, so there is no client service, abd no spiritual contact from me offered to them. Just find some person who can read and has some common sense, and that's it! 

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There were in today's new among other things about football fans in some Eurooe Mastership tournament game in Scotland, https://yle.fi/a/74-20097675 , and some, on some city square connected with the happening, two interviewed men appeared quite stuck in a way familiar from the time of my university studues as a young adult, but when one changed the style of conversation to what are the moods today, the motivational interests, (cultural?) areas of life in the air today, it seemed to go just fine, with more complex cultural areas of life mentioned, understood in everyday life's ways, inspired, motivated, spirited. 

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Fair play connects with estimating what each one cultivates and how and what is so it's effect and place in the world. And which values one folliws, etc. So fair play is different from granting the same righrs as the other one has. People often have different valyes and skills, dufferent sphere of lufe, etc, and different picture of the world, so it is not ok to geant them equal rights. So one can notice that different professions, gender role based values, habits, social ways, etc, different cultures, different types of moral, etc do not deserve the same rights as the other one, instesd one must estimate each one separately, taking into account that sll do not folliw tveir all valyes and skills all the time, so for example school educated boy may thinkarmy like attacks, aiming at killing, destruction and suffering,  preferred goals compared with school education's values, and that is very different from gurls cultivating good life for their future family and nearest obes and wisdom of life according to feelings in the world, without forgetting school education's values and basic skills. So those two views cannot exchange position and power in the world, are not alike in effects. Likewise cultures are not alije in what they cultivate, for exanple the Swedish speakkng Finnish culture cultivates a good imago even if it means lying etc, while the Finnush speaking Finnish culture cultivates caring things fairly well for the world with the healo of educated objective thinking, common sense and wisdom of lufe. So those two ought to affect different sreas of lufe and in diffwrent ways, instead of having as much influence as the other culture. 

I have written so much about the rationality of feelings, see MiracleLikeNature.BlogSpot.com , that it is no wonder if I seem to run amazingly lot to the explanation that sone women or girls are in fact transvestites, i.e. men pretending to be women. Such is often for bots and men an attempt to gwt women's benefits and position to boys abd men, as if those were not results of women's work lije deeds and strenghrs in skills and values. So one should not act who cultivatds what, how much, with whuch valyes, skills and picture of tge world.

 Clothes are meant to communicate what to expect from the person wearing them, lije symboluc volours meaning that it is likely that the person would suppirt such values. And types of clothes suit to different things done, so one can communicate about one's profession, hpbbies, type of free time sought aftef, etc. And in connection with doing thkngs, communicating and being social, the types of skills and emohazies on types of ways of spending time, often seek to have expression in the styles of clothes, like kind of stick figure like thin guy in trousers and shirt also of basic style could be good for basic oractical actiln, but if one is much more skilked, one often runs knto communucation problems  so one would use clothes that refer to some extra factor, extra skill to take into account, lije the style of some other area of lufe too, of certain level of complexity via which to recognuze people with whom it is good to communicate, or fir mire varying ways of doing like mysic etc, mire round more complex shapes of vlothes, likewise if there are differencies of tens of years in age, it affects with whom to get along and in which ways and so the style of clithes too. Clothes can help to tune to certain areas of life, so transvestites alliwed woukd mean for some men a cooking hobby lije free time clith or a party like shirt or the like, instead of a skirt. A skurt refers to caring for many sides of things, caring thibgs well for life, for certain areas and with the sense of atmospheres and wisdom of lufe according to feelings along, so for looking things from many perspectives at the same time, a comfortably wide nice looking skirt is often a betger social choice than jyst trpusers. And the idea is that one should not lue about these, for example thinking that the clith or company eould bring the skilks and values, but instead one ought to dress according to one's values and dreams, according to what one seeks to support, and one's preferred skill level in sight in the style and type of clithes too. So it is not all8wed to act a woman. 

So the difference between man like ordinary trousers and a woman in an ordinary colourful skirt is something like when one is at home with childhood family or friends and the woman in skirt would care some things well like is recommanded, the one in trousers saying "I woukd not think that one needs to do such, I would not bother to do such", so the one in trousers is leaving a more scarce version of what to care well and with which creterions to estimate that it is ok. While the woman cares things well for life lije is civiliced and has wisdom of lufe according to feelings. One who man like cates such, takes them in a work like wsy, thinking what was it that was demanded, which were the criterios of it done - instead of like the woman just caring yhings well for life like common sense and comfortable living in the long run demand, while one's civiliced picture of the world and exoerience of lufe offer backip. But it is essential to remember that the values of each matter a lot, in this too. 
Clothes also sometimes go wrong, so it shoukd somehow be seen in one's socia style. If one needs a certain kind of cloth and there are only one blue version of them and one type of red, it is clear that one cannot choose so exactly. On the other hand,if one would do habdiworks oneself and manage to produce a nice cloth fitting oneself very well, it would become a way to recognize that one individual, and so someone wanting to steal one's identity, life, etc, woukd steal those cöothes or spoil them from you, while kidnapping or otherwise transferring you away, or spoiling or otherwise changing your lufe so much that a happy actor looks more like you than you yourself. If doing handuworks is more common and without such personal attachment, it ought not affect so much, like for example if you give your nice handiwork away to someone who likes such and buy something nice for yourself instead. 

Some change a lot the style of their clothing. Sometimes it looks like social lying or acting, which often is disastrous for some at their mercy. But at other occasions changing types of clothing according to things done has seemed to make room for life and has not apeeared harmful or like acting. Especially hobby group leaders (hobby group techers) seem to change clothes often so: having a quite outrageous style well fitted to the subject of the free time hobby course,often making one wonder at which foreign cultural inflyencies it is, but they say that it is their iwn view, it just appeared to fit today, but that thry have lots of cultural inflyencies from this and there and maybe their spouce too a foreigner, and when the hobby class is ending they sppear to have ordinary nice outdoor recreation coat or some other type of nice outdoor clothes that seem to classify them to a certain large group like school teachers for example, and if one looks at their own things typically at a table or a stool where they keep the course, those seem to include some factual work cloth of a still different style, but those all fitying to parts of the same way of life, which seems to be possible to have been communicated in an honest way in all the social circles. It seems that hobby course teachers are not so many school teachers, but instead so many that one can ask some such opinion too but not so many and not so school like oriented that people would get squeezed to school like life, but instead each course ought to offer another kind of lufe, more like free time or another profession, vulture, inclination to wisdom of lufe etc. 
A hobby course teacher ought not be a foreigner, since thst causes communication problems and what has been possible for the hobby teacher is not working out for the students of his/her course. So a hobby course teacher should be of the same culture, being able to answer all questions from the point of view of the school like thinking, picture of the world, wisdom of life, etc of young people, and also offer info about possibilities for such a hobby, jobs around the world, for such srea of lufe, and these too from the point of view of young people's understanding, life experience, etc. So the hobby course teacher should be an enthusiast of such life, knowing of such possibilities beacause of being interested in such life and cultures supporting such. 

FROM MY BOOK "SOME TEXTS ABOUT FEELINGS AND WISDOM OF LIFE" 

Learn to be like a hero of old times

 See https://workandfreetime.blogspot.com/2024/01/learn-to-be-like-hero-of-old-times-but.html 


"A Christmas song "I am not seeking for power or glory" + Some words about power

I added my old video to the middle of this quotation. It is a song from the point of view of thinking large scale profound questions of wisdom of life, and it so helps to create the Christmas time. It is just a beautiful song, not an opinion in a conversation. And it does not agree to give power etc to those who break against such beautiful values. 


 "   D30. 3rd of September 2020   There is a much liked old Finnish Christmas song called En etsi valtaa loistoa, "I am not seeking for power or glory" that tells of the value of things themselves and of wisdom of life instead of grasping only tool like things.




"I am not seeking for power or glory

I am not seeking for power or glory,
I am not searching gold either.
I beg for heaven's light
and peace upon the Earth.
It brings Christmas which brings happiness
and lifts spirit up to god.
Not power nor glory
but instead peace upon the earth.

Allow me a peaceful hut
and children's Christmas tree.
The light of god's words
 in which my soul gets lighter.
Bring to homes, also to small ones
now Christmas celebration sweet.
Light of god's word
and some nobleness of mind.

To the poor and to the rich too
comes Christmas lovely.
To the darkness of the world
bring heaven's light.
I want you, I wait for you
you master of earth and heaven.
To the poor and to the rich
bring your sweet Christmas!"
(my translation)"


From "The Christmas gnomes/elves internet institute" learntalents.blogspot.com 



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GAIN FAIR POSITION PER TYPE OF DEED, ETC

From my text about women's position, see the link in tge advertisement page of The Christmas Gnones Internet Institute https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/01/christmas-gnome-internet-institute.html 

"Basics of position

W7.   Often one gets along and gets solid position when one respects the values of the area of life at hand and tries to learn it's skills in a good quality way and cultivate them well in ways that respect that area's values and motivation and what livibg in a society needs for the society to be good to live in, now and in the future. 

W8.   What people get position from and how they get treated, is from what they do from momentvto moment, which are the values followed in that, which level of skills in each thing done or thought of, and what is the way of being social, and is it fair, honest, responsible, etc. 

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Learning skills which give a higher position

W11.   "If you want a better position, the rule "Live and let others live!" F60. in the Christmas gnome text, followed all the time in everything, with commln sense and lots of wisdom of life, tends to give so lots of freedom as long as one follows the rule with wisdom. It also tends to give a much higher position to decide about things  since things usually run smoothly with such wisdom. 

If you need extra skills to gain position to influence things, try E11. Easy quick school for animals, M8. Like a hero of old times, and N97. Emperor's power. "

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N97.   My first name Kaisa has the association "keisari"= emperor. What i have learned from it, is that an emperor's power isn't for a certain person or position but instead for a certain type of deeds, so in practice for many different kinds of persons and for them per deed and not continually. The person should be responsible, wise and skilled enough, work fairly for the good of the country and of the world. 

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From https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/01/womens-position-like-that-of-others.html where there are also other texts on the subject.

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A quotation from https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/12/about-publicity.html






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LEARN SKILLS AND TALENTS

I copy the advices in learning skills and talents here too.


F60. Oh, how is gnome like life possible socially, how is it possible to get along and to have room for one's own life, for one's own likings? I guess that the answer is the traditional Finnish rule "Live and let others live!". It is essential, so I copy it here:

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Saturday, October 13, 2012

World's best problem solving method (Important to learn all over the world)

 The ruleis something like: One is allowed to be selfish in ways positive for happy life but not to disturb the lives of others - except fairly to prevent them from disturbing others unfairly.

I do not know how all-European this traditional Finnish speaking Finnish (saying/)behaviour rule referred by the non-literal words "Live and let others Live!" but it is surely worth copying! It gives a maximal amount of freedom of everyone, completely according to their own likings, at the same time as it gives perfect moral for purely selfish individuals concerned mainly about their own life but who have a holistic rational view of the world and of the
society's workings.
The rule "Live and let other Live!" means that you can yourself live as freely as you allow others to live in the society - that means the others who follow the rule "Live and let others Live!". If you to some extend disturb people who follow the saying, you own room to affect things and to live in is shrunk on that respect, preventing the harm and making you think that you might want more room and so be motivated to living in harmony. That means that evil is not allowed to affect lives (of anybody else than the evil one oneself) but nice moral things are allowed to affect fully and supported in order to get better life for all! But one does not need to accept some influence because someone else says it is nice, instead there is the need to be moral and the freedom tofollow one's own likings.
It is a good rule. Maybe You have it already! Please learn to use it for happy life and a prosperous society, if it is not so widely known...

About the rule in all social relationships, please read http://yksinaisille.blogspot.fi/2012/03/build-perfect-relationship.html

Observe that this rule is roughly "Room for happy life!" and is akin to justice and caring the world to such that it is good to live in happily. It is not saying that one should not kill anybody. It means that if fair play and the happiness in the society or in the wide world so demands, you are supposed to prevent evil ones (and utterly stupid ones) from harming others unfairly, also if it means war, killing or the like, but of course one must see the situation as a whole, the good and bad sides of each tactic and choose with wisdom.

There is this same rule without any exception in all relationships, including mother-child-relationships, dating (Try for example in competitors in love, their kids and other responsibilities), friendship, hate, not caring attitude etc. Largely other rules are not needed, except lots of common sense, healthy spirit and a good understanding and at least some good will toward all.

An important application of this rule are the relationships between countries and between groups which may compete fiercely. It is also a good rule to build the society upon.

It often happens with this rule that the problems disappear as if they had vanished to the thin air.
Typically some woman (a wise one) or some nice man says "Go and enjoy yourself. Do not be bothered by them. You do not need to disturb them if you go to some other place or to some other people." and so the person in conflict does so and finds so room for him/her to live his/her own life without conflict with the others.

The goal is something like "We live our lives and let them live theirs." But the other side of the rule is how to get it to apply, how to force it upon people who do not follow it. And that is if they break against justice disturbing the lives of others unfairly, their own room to live in is shrunk similarly and they are prevented from harming others unfairly. But where they live ok, they can fairly keep their space to live in. Typically in this the rest of the society caring about that people would follow the rule, is important. Also some wisdom of life makes this work better than too little understanding about quality of life, social relationships and the workings of the society.

If this rule isn't familiar to you and you don't know how to take it into use or even if you want to use it or not, please try it out in your mind: figure out what it is like in each situation and how following it would affect things. It is a very useful rule, somaybe you like it too, it is quite easy when you have first learned it in each type of situation.

If you in some occasion don't feel like yur feelings coming along in letting others have so much room and preferably happiness too, you have propably not applied the rule enough to yourself: so be more selfcentered, think about what your own life need in a situation like this and see if you can arrange freedom and happiness for both yourself and for others, for yourself you need to take care of it and for others just leave room for them and they themselves with their friends arrange for themselves without feeling it being a burden of some kind.

This rule works also if there are lots of murders http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2016/10/live-and-let-others-live-also-if-there.html

In care professions, like for example medicine, it is important to follow good enough understanding, good enough moral and be honest about what is a lie, a habit or an unsure supposion. But with wider consequencies taken fally into account this rule applies there too: the patients and others cared for should be allowed to decide fully about their need for care and about the decisions in their care: that is their life, their own influence to the world and those in care professions should not mess with it, giving excuses for crimes. It is especially important to let those live freely who are moral and so carry the burden of keeping the world in a good state, for example some parts of the society.

This rule works well for example in the negotiations between different groups. You do not need always say aloud that things are according to this rule. It is enough if your suggestions are such that when other groups check them, they find that those are ok for them, so they can easily agree to support them, and likewise for your own groups too. But on the long run it is good for people to learn the rule, so that their own suggestions are all right for others too.

Following this rule in decisions, courses taken, judgements etc makes police and justice system and government also easy to agree about, but you do not need to refer to this rule, but more likely explain things in terms of law, needs, objective thoughts, common sense, experience, fair play, carrying responsibility, freedom, etc and then when the other person checks whether it is ok for him/her, it is according to this rule and so easy to agree about, and kind of makes it easier to think of these kinds of things if one has good enough understanding, wisdom wisdom of life, healthy spirit, good will and responsibility about the coming generations etc.




Horse running in an arch, a model of free life according to feelings, a horse knit picture

Animals and somehumans too learn this rule easily by comparing people (and animals) to the trees in a park: each one has one's branches sovereign, lives freely according to one's emotions so, but does not mess with the branches of others, isn't allowed to do so. But one can offer available things that people like, like for example a song in the radio, in a radio station which specializes to that type of music so that people can choose according to their likings whether they listent o it or not.





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E11.   20th of September 2020    Maybe a gnome too could learn this way:

"Easy quick school for animals, especially pets and birds

 Animals which associate closely with humans, especially pets, ofr example dogs, sometimes ask if there could be a school for animals too. I have written advices about learning common sense like objective thinking and about fitting into the society, so here is my version of a kind of school for animals:

1) Thinking: use a landscape like view that observes structures. Good practise for this is looking at familiar scenes and landscapes with trees and some life in them. Trees and nature make observation ability better and join the sense of sight topgether with the sense of atmospheres, which is also good for thinking. http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com

For teaching this to a dog that is interested in learning it, go outdoors to some peaceful enough place where there are trees but not overly amess. Do not strand face to face by your pet but instead side by sode so that it looks at the same landscape as you, and so you can look at it so that it sees it the same way and then you can walk to a bush, tree, street's side lawn etc like observed firstm, and that's it.

2) Fitting into the society: The advice "Live and let others live!" is good for this. Think of each person and each group sovereign as the trunk and branches of a tree in a park. It does not mess with the branches of other trees and those too leave it alone, to freely and happily live it's own life. Good will toward others is a good advice here. https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html

 Another piece of advice is for all to work for better life in a better living environment, like work, hobbies, friends, caring for the environment, making the society good to live in. https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2013/04/rationally-grounded-moral.html

3) Wisdom of life and healthy ways of living you can partly learn from how tree branmches curve topward light and what is their atmosphere, the mood it seems to refer to and the kind of life, and partly from sport and healthy kind of life on all areas of life.

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There are also some other things that have often come to my mind when thinking of a school for animals, especially for pets and birds, maybe for mice too.

4) About teaching an animal to read there is a video about reading Finnish language at https://villakoirabanjo.blogspot.com/2020/01/opeta-elaimesi-lukemaan-nain.html , but for it one must first understand spoken language, which often goes by associating with humans and paying attention to the situations and tones of voice, and later by remembering also the atmospheres of the spoken language. Finnish language is written like it is pronouced, but there are some differencies between literature's language and the words of spoken language.

5) The square looks of houses etc are a consequence of it being so easy to place two or more parts next to each other tightly and so that one can choose from nay options, what to place so. So one can build shelter from weathers and from dangers and use materials economically. Such houses also offer fiar chances for different types i´of individuals and a possibility for privacy. The square looks of houses are not good for intelligence and quality of life. For them it is good to look at trees outside the window. If life indoors feels tough, do not attach yourself to build things but instead only to the nature outside the window and to outdoors at large.


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M8.   1st of June 2022    I wonder could one be like a hero of old times but in these modern ages if one read kn part 2. the text About Kalevala B38., and in the beginning of this blog about how to learn talents and skills, and maybe the Easy quick school for animals E11., and if one would look at healthy natural ages old ways of living from the point of view of basic theoretical picture of the world like the sciences. 


B38.   "

About kalevala

"I bought Kalevala as a book to myself and read some of the beginning. In the competition singing of Väinämöinen and Joukahainen I was surprised to notice that Joukahainen did not lack skills so much, but instead Väinämöinen sang him to be things like the glow of the nature, to the marks of great skill in the nature.
   "Hat from the head of the man he sang
   to be an erect front edge of a cloud;
   he sang mittens from his hands
   to be leaves on the cover of pond's water,
   from that misty blue
   to be clouds in the sky,
   from his belt a fascination of a new wife
   to be stars scattered in the sky."
So I was left to ponder, if I as a girl thought when reading kalevala that that is what can happen with great skill: one loses position, propably via losing communication connection when one no longer speaks the language of men with more soldier like style. That I would take care to not to fall myself into that pitfall. But at the same time I thought that I could nearly reach that high, to that style in achievements. Now I think that it is like having met a bird: with it's song it makes forests beautifult o wander in, green, there is much soldier like wisdom in it's voice. 
 But so, how did I think I could reach so high skill and quality of life, like the reddish glow of the grassas in a forest etc. One would have a healthy way fo living or a healthy touch of one's own which would cure the way of life healthy again, to ages old. In every thing one would see the parts of healthy way of life which are as an idea in it, and so the deed when sees alike as others' deeds would be healthy on one's own and on others too, and so one could continue with healthy psirit from that, each one, whole society, and partly the rest of the world lear from it. ( World is of love (a mechanical model) http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html ) ( http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html )
One would have skills of one's own, one would have found one's own roads in life, it would be good to be an individual, personality, like oneself and strong, enjoying being an individual. And so human relationships would be in a way clishee like and in a way with a healthy spirit: one would have the strenght to have an opinion, do meaningful things, carried by the values of the society, things with healthy psirit carried by the actions and values of the society which have healthy spirit which would have strenght and content to life.
And one could get strenght, skills and integrite with opinions from being soldier like: to defend something, to invest in healthy courses, copying fro little singin birds and fromother strong wild animal persons (http://wildharmony.blogspot.fi/ ). One would be healthily spoirty, doing things at the practical level, with a good understanding achieved via adfmiring the nature and feeling via beautiful values, caring for the world, approaching life with feelings, motivated to the sphere of life and missions of the traditional way of life, with feelings and with a good understanding, reaching parts of the forefigures in nature of their skill level every now and then. (In Finnish http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi/2016/07/suurista-tunteista.html )


My old video: if you can imagine a skill livelily, you can learn it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAFN4gs35_A


https://talesfromforest.blogspot.com/



M9.   From my blog todreamjob.blogspot.com

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1. To a Dream Job (Like this you find your dream job and learn talents!)

To a Dream Job
 Written by Kaisa Hannele Tervola, Finland
Many of us have different strenghts than what your dream job would need. And the more we admire some professions, the higher demands we often set to ourselves to be allowed something so high. But our own strenghts reflect usually the dreams of our parents, to which we have already gotten introduced so much that we are thoroughly bored, and not what we feel that our own lives have been most lacking, what we most admire and which we would most enjoy our time, which we would most carefully take to our heart and take care of if it were our work. We cannot change to be copies of our parents, so better for us to travel to the unknown toward our own dreams!
Choosing a profession for oneself starts with finding the right way of living: what is your biggest dream, what would perfect life be like, what is the one and only right choise that is often so far that at most in sleeping dreams and tales we dream of it? Set your goals there, take the first steps to that direction with your full heart and with all your wisdom of life, and life is at once much more worth living. If you try with a full heart, that is a different things from somehow, with half a mind only, quickly on the way to something else, just somehow sloppily, just because of the looks and not the content, done. First the idea is to get experience of trhe area of life that you love. You do not need to be of professional level to start with, instead the main thing is to to via your own most loved roads get to know the things you love with your full heart, even if they were distant dreams. Via travelling your own roads you can use your capacity fully and learn as much as you ever can. When setting your goals according to your own wishes,according to those distant dreams, your deeds do not lack spirit: you are at once talented in something that you love. First you have a fascinating hobby, then you start to achieve things that fascinate you in it, set new goals that you love and work for them enthusiastically. This way you do not get flat and bored from memorizing books, instead you have your own style and music like fascinatuion in what you do, real power and own insight and well trainbed skills as  your support in your favourite job, which is like your deepest dreams and not set by the environment you happen to be in, your nonexistent starting leve of skills and your initial lack of talents. So there is nothing stopping you from starting in your favourite job, first maybe as a practising student and across time as a real professional in it!
On this road there helps the piice of advice about learning skills in things that you love:
How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting"


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2. How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting (Like this you learn all kinds of skills!)

Skills are often ways of looking at things: when one cancentrates in the right way to right things and notices enough the right structures/regularities (like for example colours with their tones and with what they get compared with), then skill is born from it already without really practising it - maybe in five minutes, maybe in 20, maybe from two day's relaxed hobby. But the difficulty is to find that right way of looking, being drown enough in it and to know what that skill really demands.

I have been making advices to others about skills that I can well. With the same principles I ought to be able to make advices for myself about skills that I want to learn. Just for fun I tried this theoretical view to the skill of painting: "What if one could learn it all at the same time?!" In principle one could... Except that some time would be needed for learning to conceive motorics of hands, learning how different colours of paints behave, etc things demanding experimenting. But the basic principle is always the same:


Drown in the experience so strongly that you notice clearly the different tones of the things that you want to learn, for example instead of noticing just red and green, you drown into enjoying the colours and their tones with their impressions so sensitively and experiencing them with your whoke being that you notice even small differencies in tones as clearly as those of colours earlier. The strenght of the experience brings to you vocabulary for that: this is a cold atmosphere, that is a warm social one, what the different things are like, ever better and better noticing such things. Like this you learn to take into account those things. Then just do so and your skill is ok in what comes to that side of things.

All the taime when you do so, when you concentrate to a new side of things, all the time keep your old skills along, for you to get at the same time both your old skills and the new ones. That does not mean keeping to a stuck view or stuck ways, istead it means relaxation in a lively non flat way, reaching a new inspiration, not from dreams but from the fascination of life at the level of experience, which is born of relaxation and of new beginnings, of letting go of old. You can keep your ability to notice the things that your skill consists of, even if you would lose it's formal side totally. Each time you learn something new and the spirit of your skill gets more profound, at the same time as your old skills stay fully.

So what would this mean for me as a beginner without painting skills? One should learn to no5tice forms and colours with their tones, atmospheres, states of mind, harmony, balance, rhythms and their encounters, breaks, what gets compared to what, common spirit and it's complex variations,... And to draw and paint them on paper. So one should drown in the world of colours, enjoy forms and structures, give room for feelings and feel how they affect the way one observes things, get more sensitive to observe how atmosphere connects to what one looks at and how, what associations it brings to one's mind, what role things have in the world and how it brings the spirit to things. One should also learn how to move these to paper: I notice a form/structure, I lift it to be a subject of my concentration and my hand draws a line that reflects the structure in my mind. Superfluous lines are important to drop away in this: not writing, not a language of geometrical forms, instead just a feeling and drownig into it draw a line. Likewise the other sides: a clear image in one's mind and drowning into it drawn/painted shape.

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I noticed that I learned painting well and quickly when in addition to this piece of advice I bladdred through a good quality study book of aquarel painting and was left watching some especially fascinating picture in it, trying toconceive how it was so fine, how it had been painted and why it had so good spirit, how the whole so successfull. Then I left the book open at that place for a couple of days or a few and looked at the fascination of the picture every time I was interested ins uch. Then I painted just something that fascinated me (does not need to be the same subject) partly based on my old skills and learning according tyo the previous advice in skill learning new fascinating things and partly based on what I learned by copying from the picture. Like this after painting a few pictures I knew also new skills quite well.
As far as I know also this piece of advice suits also learning other skills. A good quality study book offers model of a skilled forefigure, who can with her/his style, way of doing and by the things picked to the book teach professionals kills of that area of life. Like this one learns the practices of the profession, it's skills, it's view to the world and even values and it's typical spirit of doing."





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24th of December 2023   If there appear to be kind of maybe quite horisontal, somehow square lines in the air, which maybe affect atmosphere and what one can do and how llng social influencies last, those may be a way of mice or the like hide their presence. So you ought to tell the possibly present mice etc near by, what is the reason why some social contact's view is erraneous and ought not be followed, like telling it to a child or the like. You could also teach the Easy quick school for animsls E11. to them. It is in the above collection too. It ought to help a lot. "


FROM: "WONDERFUL, MIRACLE LIKE BEINGS", also available as an ebook at the internet bookshop www.amazon.com 

A new book/ebook

 This blog's version 23rd of July 2024 ought to be available as an ebook at  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D8WHSF5P